How Do We Know That You Are Ready For Your
Practice Expand The Box Training?
If you are a Possibilitator who has been in Possibilitator Training for at least 2 years, and,
you have completed at least 10 Possibility Labs with various Trainers, and,
your Possibilitator Specialty has been confirmed as 'Trainer Path', and,
you have been Building Skills and Building Matrix as specified in the section below titled:
PREPARATIONS: WHAT ARE THE CHARACTERISTICS OF SOMEONE WHO MIGHT POSSIBLY BE READY TO DO THEIR PRACTICE EXPAND THE BOX TRAINING?, and,
you can honestly demonstrate that you have done and can do most of the things on that list,
including the 99 Shifts and the 10 Doorways, and,
someone from the Possibility Management Infinity Ring Trainer Training Node contacts you,
and tells you that the Trainer Training Node thinks that you are ready to deliver your Practice Expand The Box Training...
then, this is a workable situation where you would
contact one of the Possibility Management Infinity Ring Trainer Trainers and arrange with them
to check you out to make sure you are ready, and then to sit in at your official Practice Expand The Box Training.
Your Practice Expand The Box is your Expand The Box solo flight.
To make the solo flight, you must already know know how to Fly.
Your Practice Expand The Box is NOT the time to learn to deliver Expand The Box Training.
You must already be able to do this.
The Trainer-Trainer is there for damage control, in case somehow you fuck up.
Practice Expand The Box Training is you delivering a 3-day transformational guerilla-street-theater process space
alone for 6 participants, with a paid Trainer-Trainer (1000€ plus travel, food, and overnight) sitting in the back of the room
giving you feedback and coaching on every break and often in real time...
(more details are listed below...)
Your Practice Expand The Box is the one-and-only doorway to becoming
an official Expand The Box Trainer and joining the Possibility Management Trainer Guild.
We have discovered these Preparations and Requirements the long hard slow painful way.
Pain is the price we have paid to learn that the Preparations and Requirements are necessary.
They are necessary so that you succeed.
We are not the least bit interested in building up a Fantasy World about you 'being a Certified ETB Trainer'
if, in reality, you are not.
Trainer Path is a Winning Happening game.
PM Trainer-Trainers stack the cards in your favor BEFORE we send you out into the world as an ETB Trainer.
Then the whole world wins when you win.
The PM Infinity Ring Trainer-Training Node wants you to succeed.
A Possibility Management Trainer's Path never ends because there is no top end on an authentic evolutionary Path. The result is that every Active Possibility Management Expand The Box Trainer and Possibility Lab Trainer is on the Trainer Path. Trainer Path is the evolutionary community of Active PM Trainers.
You start being a member of the PM Trainer Path the moment it becomes crystal clear to the Possibility Management Infinity Ring Trainer-Training Node that your Bright Principles and your Archetypal Lineage are simultaneously challenged and fed by ongoingly delivering Expand The Box Trainings and Being A Trainer.
You remain on the Trainer Path until either you become an 'Inactive Expand The Box or Possibility Lab Trainer', or until you fall over dead delivering Thoughtmaps at a flip-chart board during a Training. (Perhaps even after that you are still on Trainer Path...)
While on the Trainer Path you will be continually researching, learning, discovering, expanding, deepening, practicing, documenting, celebrating, and delivering - along with other Trainer Pathers - the Thoughtware, Tools, Distinctions, and Processes of Possibility Management, at the competence level that is appropriate to where you are on the Path.
Being on the Trainer Path is being on the Trainer Path.
Day 1 of Trainer Path is simultaneously Day 1 of Phase 2 of your Possibilitator Training, the 'Specialty Skills Development' part of Possibilitator Training. Phase 1 of Possibilitator Training is essentially the same for every Possibilitator, going through the 10 Doorways. But Phase 2 of Possibilitator Training diverges into learning your Specialty skills.
The procedure to become an Expand The Box Trainer in the context of Possibility Management is clear, simple and definitely not easy.
The gateway to being an Expand The Box Trainer is delivering a successful Practice Expand The Box Training.
Trainer Path is an Archetypal journey of Healing and Transforming your Box and Gremlin's Blocks, resistances, Triggers, Reactivity, and Hidden Competing Commitments. It is the journey through Flux Points, Breakdowns, Ego State Decontaminations, gaining Mage Skills, multiple Phoenix Processes, untold numbers of Emotional Healing Processes (EHP), authentic Adulthood and Archetypal Initiations, feedback and coaching from your Teams, all designed to help you build the Matrix necessary for your Being and Presence to create and Navigate a 3-day Practice Expand The Box.
Consider that between the moment you enter the Trainer Path and the moment you are ready enough to be asked to deliver your Practice Expand The Box, the time that passes will probably be at the least TWO YEARS. Anything less than this suspiciously involves some kind of self-deception on your part or our part.
By preparing yourself to deliver a Practice Expand The Box, you change your relationship to the Universe. This forces the Universe to change its relationship with you. As you take Radical Responsibility for many things that you were taking almost no responsibility about before in your life, we offer you a few warnings to consider:
WARNING #1:
It is possible that soon after you Declare your Intentions to join the Trainer Path Specialty of Possibilitator Training you experience a rapid crash and burn. This experience of recoil and self-sabotage is your Box and Gremlin doing their jobs: insuring that you survive by continuing to do things in your familiar ways. Evolution is not on their list of Survival Strategies. Your Box and Gremlin will automatically do anything in their power to compromise your ability to Hold Transformational Space, or be a force of Evolution and Love. If this is the case, do not panic, do not make huge conclusions, do not make sudden moves. Your Box and Gremlin will eventually shape around your new commitment of becoming an Expand The Box Trainer. Extended warning: this could happen multiple times on your Path.
WARNING #2:
If when you read the paragraphs above, your Box starts thinking: 'I will never make it', 'This is not for me', 'I never wanted to be an Expand The Box Trainer anyway', or, 'I give up now', please write these sentences down exactly, and take them to your Trainer Path members, your 3Cell, or members of your Possibility Team to go through these Emotional Healing Processes. It is completely appropriate that your Box freaks out. Your Box cannot deliver an Expand The Box. But you can.
SPECIAL NOTE: If when you read the two paragraphs above, you - your Gremlin - says: 'I don't want to wait two years!', 'I am already ready!', 'Two years is too long!', 'I don't want to wait around for somebody else to tell me I am ready!', then quite probably, your Gremlin Ego State is contaminating your Adult Ego State. Please start immediately your Decontamination process in the company of a Decontamination Coach (someone who has successfully gone through the Decontamination Process themselves) and your Decontamination Team. Do not stop working fiercely at your own Decontamination until your Adult Ego State is fully Decontaminated. Decontaminating your Adult Ego State from Parent, Child, Gremlin, or Demon contaminations usually takes at least one-and-a-half-years of steady work with strong ongoing support. WE ARE NOT JOKING ABOUT THIS. A person with a contaminated Adult Ego State has no access to Presence, no access to archetypal spaces, no access to authentic intimacy, and no access to serving as a Possibility Management Trainer. As long as your Adult Ego State is contaminated to any measurable degree by your Gremlin (or Child or Parent or Demon) Ego States, you do not have the Attention, Conscious Will, Vulnerability and Clarity necessary to deliver Expand The Box Trainings.
WARNING #3:
If you embark on this magnificent evolutionary journey of Trainer Path, I am sad to say that it does not guarantee that you will ever have the chance to deliver a Practice Expand The Box or Expand The Box Trainings. Not everybody who starts out on this journey makes it. Being an Expand The Box Trainer is not for everyone. There is no guarantee.
That being said, it would not be an actual Quest journey if we promised you a guarantee of success, would it?
There are very few places where you can still embark on an authentic initiatory journey. Most diplomas and certificates today can be bought or obtained with minimum real effort. The journey to deliver your Practice Expand The Box, and thereafter Expand The Box Trainings, is an authentic initiatory journey. It has a clear beginning - entering the Trainer Path, and has no end.
WARNING #4:
Please embark on this Evolutionary journey only if your 5-Body-system aligns with your Intention to deliver Expand The Box Trainings after your successful Practice Expand The Box Training. If you are trying to accomplish 'certification' as some trophy to put on your wall, for status, for a cool thing to list in your CV, for prestige or fame... your lack of authenticity will deceive both you and our gameworld. This is not fun for us. We will be watching out for this.
We have come to see that E.C.C.O. (Earth Coincidence Control Office) has its own plan for each of us. It is possible that, after delivering a few Expand The Box trainings, E.C.C.O. may take you on a completely divergent path. We are aware that this sometimes happens. Such a Path shift is E.C.C.O.'s business. We are not asking for a life commitment to Expand The Box or Possibility Management. However, we are asking for Radical Honesty about what is your purpose for preparing yourself to deliver a Practice Expand The Box.
It would be irresponsible on our part (in this case the term 'our' refers to the Possibility Management Infinity Ring Trainer-Trainer Node - who are also members of the Trainer-Trainer Training School) to not give you thorough WARNINGS about becoming an Expand The Box Trainer. We do not take the miracle of becoming an Expand The Box Trainer lightly, and we check to see that you do not either.
Our Guardianship ('Guardianship' as in the Maori term 'Kaitiaki') is a demonstration of our care for you as a human being in service of Gaia, and a care for the global gameworld of Possibility Management.
On the Trainer Path you stand at the edge, being radically vulnerable, while at the same time holding your flaming Sword Of Clarity at the throat of rooms full of Gremlins reflexively trying to eat you alive to maintain their status quo. Over-and-over again, you will Pull The Rug Out from under their feet in order to create Healing and Transformational Spaces for landing new distinctions, memes, tools, and experiences in their 5 Bodies. Causing Transformation will burn-to-ashes any remaining attachments you have to your own Box Identifications and Survival Strategies. If you slip up, if you unleash your so-well-rehearsed survival strategies in an Expand The Box space, you risk losing the entire Training to the unconscious and desperate purposes of your participants' Boxes and Gremlins. We DO NOT want this to ever happen for you.
Trainings work when you hold such a degree of Liquidness that you are defenseless. But there is a risk in that. The risk is that your unconscious elements might recoil. Your Box and Gremlin might freak out and grab for the controls of your life. They might make you hate Possibility Management, or hate the Trainer-Trainers, or hate your feedback and coaching Teams. The risk is that 'evolutionary overwhelm' causes you to slam the door on your service to Gaia. We DO NOT want that to happen. We want you to succeed, however long it might take for you to be properly ready. There is no maximum time frame for your preparation.
We also care for the quality of the gameworld of Possibility Management. Over and over again participants in Expand The Box Trainings and Possibility Labs have experienced the extreme safety and simultaneous incorruptibility of Possibility Management Spaces. This is a legend that has grown for decades about Possibility Management. It is also the purpose of Possibility Management to provide such spaces in a global landscape where it is (too) easy for unlucky Participants to fall into the grips of a well-marketed but abusive irresponsible new-age tantric guru shaman free-love kabalistic block-chain drumming plant-medicine improvisational-contact-dance sect. An Expand The Box Trainer is required to develop an intense clarity about all this, and the ability to stare the Demon in the eyes and take him to the ground the instant that might ever become necessary.
Delivering an Expand The Box Training requires a mature level of Presence, Being, Connection, Love for other Beings and Gaia, as well as a Flaming Sword of Clarity, an Incorruptible Bullshit Detector, and access to Unreasonable and Nonlinear Possibility.
We care that you keep your Word, that you uphold this level of Integrity, and that you courageously deliver your services within the consciously evolving Gaian Gameworld of Possibility Management. We care that this level of impeccability and Accountability is carried long into future generations of Expand The Box Trainers.
An actual Expand The Box Trainer cares about this too.
This list was revised on 8 October 2022.
All Possibility Management Trainers - this means Possibilitator Training Trainer Path Specialists, ETB Apprentice Trainers, ETB Trainers, PLab Apprentice Trainers, and PLab Trainers) are on the Trainer Path, because a Trainer's Path never ends. There is 'no top end' on the Trainer Path. It does not work to think you are a Possibility Trainer and not be on the Trainer Path.
The Trainer Path does NOT include Inactive Trainers, or Trainers who are delivering predominantly mixed-context work. An 'Inactive ETB Trainer' is an ETB Trainer who has NOT delivered an online-or-offline ETB during the previous 12 months. An 'Inactive PLab Trainer' is a PLab Trainer who has NOT delivered an in-person PLab during the previous 12 months.
HINT: Check with your 3Cell, your Possibility Coach, your Possibilitator colleagues, and your Possibility Team multiple times about how you are doing with each of the following elements on this list of Practice Expand The Box qualifications BEFORE you trouble your Trainer Path Team with giving you feedback and coaching about these things.
NOTE: Many Emotional Healing Processes (EHP) may be required for you to become a person who can become a qualification which you have been avoiding.
MEMORIZE THE TRAINER PATH GAMEWORLD CODEX AND RULES OF ENGAGEMENT: You literally memorize the contents of the following 4 websites made specifically to support you on the Trainer Path:
2. http://beingatrainer.mystrikingly.com
The reason why all these skills, all these processes, all these precisions, all these books and films, all these websites, all these experiments, and all this Matrix-Building is so important is that exactly these resources are required to deliver Expand The Box Trainings. How do we know this? We learned it the long, slow, hard, painful way from decades of delivering Expand The Box trainings! Exactly these things are what prepare you to deal with what actually is going on in Expand The Box Trainings. You gaining these capacities is what makes it safe and possible for healing and transformation to occur in reality in Expand The Box.
These Qualifications are copied from http://practiceexpandthebox.mystrikingly.com (revised 1 May 2022)
Practice Expand The Box Training: Rules of Engagement
A 3-day Expand The Box starts at 9AM on the first day (often a Friday) and ends at 6PM on the third day (often a Sunday). The first and second day each contain 5 sessions of approximately 1h50min each, separated by a break. The first two days end around 10PM. The third day contains 4 sessions of about 1h50min eachm and ends around 6PM.
During an Expand The Box Training, you deliver a minimum of:
All the processes listed above must be delivered for the space to be considered a Practice Expand The Box Training. The minimum of what is delivered does not depend on what the participants can hold. Each participant holds what they can hold. It is your job to have this conversation with your participants who are not ready to go into a Possibility Lab.
A Practice Expand The Box is delivered alone. You are the Trainer.
We discovered that when delivering a Practice Expand The Box in pairs, both Apprentice Trainers actually miss out on the necessary experience of 'knowing' that you can deliver by yourself any and all of the 40 Expand The Box Maps, and Hold Space for any of the Expand The Box processes. If there is another Apprentice Trainer delivering their Practice Expand The Box with you, you would always wonder if you can really do it alone.
One of the Practice Expand The Box Trainers always hides behind the other, using the other Trainer as crutches, tricking the other Trainer to deliver Thoughtmaps and Processes that you don't know, or think your don't know. It does not work.
When you start delivering your full Expand The Box Trainings, it is valuable to partner with another certified Expand The Box Trainer or certified Expand The Box Apprentice Trainer. We especially recommend creating partnerships between a Woman Expand The Box Trainer and a Man Expand The Box Trainer. You can then practice Creative Collaboration between an Archetypally Initiated Woman and an Archetypally Initiated Man and demonstrate Archiarchy in action to your participants. You can discover in person, in reality, the ecstasy of co-creating and navigating transformational spaces in Archiarchy.
The Practice Expand The Box is delivered to 6 participants maximum (and minimum), including 2 Expand The Box repeaters (see below 'No Financial Cost For The Participants' for clarification about the repeaters).
The maximum limit of 6 participants is a protection for you to not 'burn' through your circle of potential Expand The Box participants by give them a free-to-participate pass. It might be tempting to offer a large number of people the possibility to access such amazing possibilities for no monetary cost. This strategy is guaranteed to turn around and bite you in the ass with a vengeance. We know what we are talking about. We learned it the hard way.
Expand The Box is amazing. Your participants need to sacrifice something in order to create space in themselves to receive the value of Expand The Box. For people who were born and raised in modern culture, paying the full tuition fee is the best sacrifice that we have found.
Wanting to deliver Expand The Box for free brings up this question: What in you avoids taking a stand for the amazingness of your service and receiving compensation for the value for it? Giving your services away for free disrespects the journey that you have taken to be where you are. If asking for the true value of your service is where you are blocked, please ask for as many Emotional Healing Processes (EHP) as needed for you to Take A Stand for the Stand that you take.
6 participants is also a minimum number for your Practice Expand The Box. This is because for a transformational space to be efficient, it needs a certain amount of energy to run on. 6 people brings the energy necessary for the Practice Expand The Box space to be alive and for you to experience working with different kinds of Boxes and Gremlins.
Last but not least, if you struggle to gather 6 people from your circle to access - for free! - the transformational power of Expand The Box training, how in hell do you think you will be able to enroll a full Expand The Box Training with 25 participants paying full price?
If you are stuck at gathering even 6 participants from your Circle to support you during your Practice Expand The Box Training, please do the Emotional Healing Processes that block you from standing up, being seen, being visible, becoming big, speaking out, being different, being powerful and clear, AND THEN, start over building Your Circle up to the recommended beginning size of 700 recipients of your monthly newsletter.
The 6 participants of your Practice Expand The Box do not pay any tuition to participate. However, they do cover their food and lodging expenses themselves.
The value exchanged with you during your Practice Expand The Box is their Attention, their Authentic Necessity, and their Feedback and Coaching. This means that at the end each session, you reserve 10 minutes for your Team of participants to give you Feedback and Coaching about what worked, what did not work, and what you could try different next time to create better results in your transformational spaceholding. Then check-in with your Trainer-Trainer on the break about what they said.
Ask your Participants to coach everything:
Even if you do not understand what they say, and especially if you do not agree with what they say, write down what they say (their exact words... not what you think they are saying) in your Beep! Book so it is available for you to review at a later date when you are not so identified with your Box and your Gremlin.
This is the importance of having 2 Expand The Box training repeaters as Participants. They have already had the experience of an Expand The Box Training, so they have more Distinctions and clearer perspectives on your Spaceholding and hence more precise and accurate feedback.
Your 6 participants do not receive an official Expand The Box graduation certificate from participating in your Practice Expand The Box. They will NOT, therefore, be qualified to go to Possibility Labs from participating in your Practice Expand The Box Training.
The 6 participants participating in your Practice Expand The Box are granted the possibility of participating in an official Expand The Box Training (your own, or an Expand The Box delivered by other Possibility Management Trainers) for half of the regular price, as is customary in the PM Gameworld for anyone doing their second Expand The Box training (with further reductions for additional ETBs... as specified in the Trainer Guild Codex) and after completing THAT Expand The Box training they will receive certification to attend Possibility Labs. It is your job to clearly explain these conditions to each of your participants BEFORE they attend your Practice Expand The Box, so that there are no confusions down the line.
If you decide to rent a Training space for your Practice Expand The Box, you must pay for that yourself. However, we recommend you to keep your expenses low. The Practice Expand The Box is easily done in someone's private house. We also recommend that you cook for yourselves, so as to keep the food expenses to a minimum also.
A Practice Expand The Box Training only qualifies as an official Practice Expand The Box if one of the listed Trainer-Trainers is there in your Practice Expand The Box Training space through the whole training from start to finish. It is recommended that you organize with the Trainer-Trainer for them to be present the day before the Practice Expand The Box starts and to stay half-a-day after the Practice Expand The Box ended (for a 'morning after' check-in).
The Trainer-Trainer is not one of the participants. They sit outside the circle of chairs in a way that does not disturb the Space.
The job of the Trainer-Trainer is:
The Trainer-Trainer does NOT NECESSARILY provide feedback and coaching during the session, unless the space is held in a way that is not transformational or even detrimental to the participants. Then the Trainer-Trainer immediately intervenes, and perhaps offering the possibility of a Do-Over or whatever they sense is necessary.
The Trainer-Trainer is the 'janitor' of the Practice Expand The Box. They are your 'safety net' if something 'goes wrong'. For clarity, an intervention on their part does not mean that you cannot receive a 'Go' at the end of your Practice Expand The Box. But it might. With the Trainer-Trainer in the space you are cleared to play Full Out... as Trainers do.
The exchange of value with the Trainer-Trainer who sits in at your Practice Expand The Box training is a fee of 1000 Euros (+tax (if applicable) + covering travel, food, and overnight expenses). This must be paid to the Trainer-Trainer well BEFORE the Practice Expand The Box begins.
If you receive a 'Go' from the Trainer-Trainer, this means you have successfully delivered your Practice Expand The Box: you are ready enough to be an Expand The Box Trainer, you can deliver fully paid Expand The Box Training that are recognized as entry way for the Possibility Labs, you are welcomed into the Possibility Management Trainer Guild and you can have a Trainer profile on the https://possibilitymanagement.org (for extra cost).
If you receive a 'Beep-Shift-Go', this means you receive specific feedback about which shift-identity processes you still need to go through and which skills are still missing for you to become someone who can deliver Expand The Box Trainings. You also receive coaching about how to train the skills and go through the shift processes. You CANNOT deliver fully paid Expand The Box Trainings that are doorways to Possibility Labs. You do not enter the Possibility Management Trainer Guild.
The Possibility Management Trainer Guild continues to support you on your Evolutionary journey. Nobody can go through the shift-processes for you. And nobody can stop you from going through this shift-processes. It might be useful for you to know that one Expand The Box Trainers did 3 Practice Expand The Box Trainings before getting a full 'Go' and now is a successful Expand The Box Trainer. Their commitment to their own evolution is changing people's lives.
Beep-Shift-Go! Get back on the horse!
Ove the years we have noticed that during a Practice Expand The Box training there is a chance that the Practicing Trainer might actually jack-in to their Bright Principles - at least temporarily - while delivering their Practice Expand The Box.
Bright Principles are archetypal forces of nature, not to be trifled with. This is a warning that the entire world and the universe, including the Training Space, can suddenly shift into a radically different sort of functionality for you the Apprentice Trainer.
This means that the world starts working in a different way than it ever did before. The difference is difficult to describe - and it is not helpful to try to describe - because any attempt that the Practice ETB Trainer to 'cause' the shift from their understanding is only harmful and blocks the possibility. We write this to you now in case the jacking-in happens to you, not to worry about it. It will stay or not stay. It will be massive or subtle. It will feel terrifying or feel ecstatic.
Often they describe the experience as, on the one hand, deeply disorienting, and on the other hand, deeply energizing and inspiring.
After the training, the world works different for them. They have been somehow amplified, broadened, encouraged, multiplied, expanded, and somehow internally ignited. Plus it turns out this experience does not diminish in intensity after the Training ends.
These new Trainers say that after a while they become more accustomed to a new sense of 'being the Space' through which their Bright Principles can do their work in the world, but the new sense of 'mission' and 'certainty' never goes away. Being jacked-in to your Bright Principles is a designed-in Archetypal human capacity, but it only initiates in the decontaminated Adult Ego State.
If your Bright Principles do or do not jack-in during your Practice Expand The Box training, it does not mean anything.
We write this warning to you so that you have a name for a possibly 'very weird feeling' set of perception shifts that might or might not occur, so that you 'do not drive off the road and crash' if it happens to you. The wobbly instability in the space does not last too long before you get used to it. You are designed to jack-in to your Bright Principles as one of your Adulthood Initiatory Processes. Nobody explains this to us. It has now been explained to you. Good luck.
The one thing we recommend for sure is that if your Bright Principles jack-in to your Being and/or your Energetic Body, write down what happened in your Beep! Book as soon as possible. Do not write down what it means to you, what you think or feel about it, what may or may not be the result. Only write down what happened as clearly as you can. The recommendation comes from the experience that if this is something you want to have happened, write it down. If you do not write it down, it did not happen.
Over the last years, a new practice has emerged: the 'Practice-Practice Expand The Box'.
The Practice-Practice Expand The Box could be a preparatory step for your Practice Expand The Box.
The Practice-Practice Expand The Box has very similar conditions to the Practice Expand The Box with three main differences:
Your first step on your path to deliver your Practice Expand The Box is to enter the Possibilitator Training: a global Team of Edgeworking genius-types on the Path of becoming fully effective Possibilitators.
To enter the Possibilitator Training, please reach out to Vera Franco - guardian and spaceholder of the Possibilitator Training.
Together Possibilitators heal and transform their inner structures to consciously collaborate with Gaia.
On this path, you will be Upgrading Human Thoughtware starting with your own, delivering Processes for others both on the Path and in life, and building bridges to archearchy - the 'next culture' - by activating our own Gaian Gameworlds.
Possibilitator Training opens doors to many Specialties needed in Archiarchal cultures. Only one of those Specialties is Trainer Path.
The core purpose of Trainer Path is to train Expand The Box Trainers, Possibility Lab Trainers, ETB-Trainer Trainers, PLab Trainer Trainers, and Trainer-Trainer Trainers, etc...
When it is clear that one of your services for Gaia is to deliver Expand The Box Training, this will also be obvious and visible to others in the Trainer Path.
Entering the Trainer Path from the Possibilitator Training requires that you have the following 10 consequences already happening in your Life:
0. You have exited working for a corporation and modern culture schooling systems (University).
1. You are able to feel consciously. You can distinguish between your feelings and your emotions. You use your feelings for handling things. You use your emotions to go through emotional healing processes with your Teams.
2. You are able to commit beyond your comfort zone. For example, you have committed to participated in 10 Possibility Labs and 5 Expand The Box Trainings.
3. You attend and hold space for a regular weekly Possibility Team for at least 3 months before entering the Trainer Path, or Study Group, or Adventure Feelings Group.
4. You attend and hold space for a 3/3/3 Anger Team (followed by 3/3/3 Fear) before entering the Trainer Path.
5. You have been on a Week- (or 10-Day or Month-) Long Emotional Experiment Team, one time as spaceholder and one time as a client.
6. You write one article or make one video or interview or write one website / month about a distinction, a practice, an experiment, a thoughtmap, or a process.
7. You have made your personal website listing Possibility Management as one of the context from which your work emerges with a sign-up link for your Newsletter
8. You send out a regular monthly newsletter plus ongoingly feed and grow your circle.
9. You prepare yourself to hold regular Rage Clubs by attending at least 2 Introductions to Rage Club, a Rage Club Series and eventually a Rage Club Spaceholder Training.
10. Your deliver regular (5/week) single coaching sessions for emotional healing processes.
Upon entering the Trainer Path, start enthusiastically and thoroughly going through the 99 shift processes listed below in the '99 Shifts' section.
These 99 shift processes are necessary initiations to become someone who can deliver Expand the Box Trainings.
These 99 shift process are as much stepping stones on your journey as deeply nourishing food for your 5-body and Trainer Being.
If you are not deeply fed by these transformational processes, it is possible that you are still in the School Prison (one of the 8 Prisons) trying to complete the assignments to make the 'teacher' happy. You are still in survival. Get yourself out of school and start over with your 99 shift processes, this time letting yourself be fed by the transformational processes.
It is also possible that along this path you discover that your Archetypal Lineage service is not to deliver Expand The Box Training. Your Archetypal Lineage and Being are fed by something else than the Trainer Path. Realizing what you don't want is getting a step closer to what you really want. If getting closer to what you want (and are) is the results of being on the Trainer Path, this is a complete success! It is possible that you would leave the Trainer Path, maybe join again the Possibilitator Training and find your true specialty. Shift-Go! Yes!
At the appropriate time, a member of the Possibility Management Infinity Ring Trainer-Trainer Node will contact you with the message, "It is time for you to deliver your Practice ETB."
If you think you should have been contacted, and you were not, you are welcome to contact someone from the Trainer Trainer Node. You will find them listed at the Trainer Guild website: http://trainerguild.org. The deal is, they will be very clear about what is exactly not ready about you. If you make this call, you would need to be prepared to receive this clarity, and more importantly, you would need to be prepared to responsibly do something about making the changes they specify. If you think you can argue your way through this conversation, you are essentially sending yourself back to zero. This is a very precious space, not to be fed to your Gremlin or your Child Ego State Contamination of your Adult Ego State. No, thank you.
If you have received the "It is time..." call from the Infinity Ring Trainer Training Node, you will be given an 'Expand The Box Starter Kit' that contains a check-list of materials you will need for your Practice Expand The Box, logistics letter templates, Expand The Box Handbook in PDF, and a template for a 3-Day Expand The Box Design.
The Trainer-Training Node will decide amongst themselves which of them will sit at your Practice Expand The Box to give you Feedback & Coaching and eventually a 'Beep' or a 'Go'. Deciding which Trainer-Trainer will sit at your Practice Expand The Box is not your choice. Only Trainers in the Trainer-Training Node are qualified to sit at your Practice ETB.
Good luck to you!
Practice Setting Context for your Practice Practice Expand The Box #1
If it was not clear before, becoming an Expand The Box takes ... practice.
Practice Setting Context for your Practice Practice Expand The Box #2
If it was not clear before, becoming an Expand The Box takes ... practice.
99 Shifts To Become Someone
Who Can Deliver Expand The Box Trainings
The purpose of you delivering a Practice Expand The Box is for your participants, the Trainer-Trainer, and you, to experience a Shift in your Identity. The question is: Who do you need to be to deliver a successful Practice Expand The Box, and thereafter, transformational initiatory Expand The Box Trainings?
The following 99 shift-in-identity processes are the ideal qualifications for a person to successfully deliver the 3-5 day high-intensity adulthood-initiation experience named Expand The Box. Of course, nobody matches the ideal because… we are human beings.
However, with over 40 years of experience learning the hard way what to avoid and what to assure while developing Expand The Box trainer skills, wouldn’t it be wise to do whatever it takes to increase Possibility in your favor?
Each of these 99 Identity Shift processes build the exact Matrix needed to become someone who can deliver Expand The Box Trainings.
We recommend that you start shifting immediately... and never stop.
Matrix Code PRACTETB.01
Prove that you have become someone who is Centered, who is Grounded and who is Bubbled. This is the beginning of first position of a Possibility Manager, in addition to have your Gremlin on a short leash and your Sword of Clarity out.
The proof can be:
Write in your PROOF when logging in Matrix Point PRACTETB.01 at https://login.startover.xyz/. This shift-process is worth 1 matrix point.
http://becomecentered.mystrikingly.com/
http://becomegrounded.mystrikingly.com/
http://yourbubbleofspace.mystrikingly.com
Matrix Code PRACTETB.02
In addition to completing the 3-3-3 by yourself and for yourself, you have held space for a Team of edgeworkers to complete the 3/3/3 Anger initiation. As the spaceholder, one of you job is to also provide feedback and coaching when needed to your Team members so they can experience the shift possible during the 3/3/3 Anger.
The purpose of the 3/3/3 Initiation is to upgrade your nervous system to it can experience conscious Anger between 0-100% at any moment for no reason. During the 3/3/3, your and your Teammates' Anger will mature from a childish, parental or Gremlin Anger towards Adult anger. Provide the necessary feedback, and ask for feedback and coaching for this shift to actually happens.
Prove that you have completed the 3-3-3 Anger Initiation. The proof can be:
Send the proof when login the Matrix Point PRACTETB.02 at https://login.startover.xyz/. This shift-process is worth 1 matrix point.
Matrix Code PRACTETB.03
In addition to completing the 3-3-3 Fear by yourself and for yourself, you have held space for a Team of edgeworkers to complete the 3/3/3 Fear initiation. As the spaceholder, one of you job is to also provide feedback and coaching when needed to your Team members so they can experience the shift possible during the 3/3/3 Fear.
The purpose of the 3/3/3 Initiation is to upgrade your nervous system to it can experience conscious Fear between 0-100% at any moment for no reason. During the 3/3/3, you and your Teammates will probably start being afraid of your fear. The maturation of the Fear is to welcome Fear as Fear, and to recognize the immense energy and information that your fear has for you. Coach others, and ask for coaching for yourself to experience such shift.
Prove that you have completed the 3-3-3 Fear Initiation. The proof can be:
Post a link to your online proof when registering the Matrix Point PRACTETB.03 at https://login.startover.xyz/. This shift-process is worth 1 matrix point.
Matrix Code PRACTETB.04
In Verbal Reality, your experience of the world, of others and of yourself is limited to the words that you know. In Verbal Reality, you must name an experience, package it in something that your mind can understand to survive. Life in Verbal Reality is linear, lifeless and in only one body.
Expand The Box is a 5-body, multi-dimensional Experiential space. Delivering Expand The Box from Verbal Reality is a betrayal of the work other's have done before you in the context of Possibility Management and it is a betrayal of the Possibility that could be created for your participants.
Prove that you have shifted from Verbal Reality to Experiential Reality. The proof can be:
Matrix Code PRACTETB.05
In school, you learn defensive learning. You are groomed to only learn things that already fit into your present understanding. This is the case of all your participants too - unless than have been unschooled (and even then). Expand The Box almost only provides knowledge (and experience) continent that do not match any of the pre-existing knowledge (or experience) of your participants.
In addition, your participants might bring knowledge continents that you do not know about and do not fit into the Expand The Box knowledge continents. If you have not shifted to Expansive Learning you will filter out, fight against and push out these knowledge continents from your participants.
Prove that you have shifted to Expansive Learning:
Send the proof when login the Matrix Point PRACTETB.05 at https://login.startover.xyz/. This shift-process is worth 1 matrix point.
Matrix Code PRACTETB.06
On your path, you will travel though 5-body liquid states. You will make discoveries almost every day. You will travel through the level of one distinctions many times. You might have already figure out that on this path of evolution, you often do not remember who you were 3 months ago.
If you do not write along the way your discoveries, your liquid states, your new decisions, your new identities, the new territories that you've been through, they are lost. When each of the steps that you've taken could be (is certainly) useful for somebody else who will walk to path behind you.
On the Trainer Path, it is one of your jobs to leave signs, and stakes in the territories that you have visited for other walkers to find them later (or even for you to look back on the journey that you have taken). It is also how you build your circles. Your circle is made of many people who are walking in the territories that you have walked so you can offer guidance.
The discoveries, especially the Feedback and Coaching, that you receive are articles to be written, videos to be made, processes to be written up.
Prove that you are ongoingly documenting your discoveries and feedback in your Beep! Book. The proof can be:
Send the proof when login the Matrix Point PRACTETB.06 at https://login.startover.xyz/. This shift-process is worth 1 matrix point.
Matrix Code PRACTETB.07
Your Possibility Team is the central seed of Your Circle.
As you water your Circle seed and give it sun and nutrients, Your Circle grows.
Your Possibility Team is the ideal safe and dangerous space for you to practice holding space ongoingly. Experiment with how to create a space that is attractive through offering real value, real connection, real Team Work.
Your Possibility Team is your home.
Prove that you have held a Possibility Team for at least one year. The proof can be:
Matrix Code PRACTETB.08
This shift-process can be done during your Possibility Team meetings.
Prove that you have read and done one SPARK-Experiment weekly for 52 weeks. The proof can be:
Matrix Code PRACTETB.09
Please first read the & listen to the recording of the Practice Space: Taking Care of Your 5 Bodies (Clinton Callahan spaceholder).
Then prove that you are practicing daily consciously caring for your 5 bodies.
Send the proof when login the Matrix Point PRACTETB.09 at https://login.startover.xyz/. This shift-process is worth 1 matrix point.
Matrix Code PRACTETB.10
Prove that you have rather permanently unmixed your emotions. The proof can be:
Send the proof when login the Matrix Point PRACTETB.10 at https://login.startover.xyz/. This shift-process is worth 1 matrix point.
11. Already Stellated Your Four Feelings To 100%
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Prove that you have stellated your four feelings to 100%. The proof can be:
Send the proof when login the Matrix Point PRACTETB.11 at https://login.startover.xyz/. This shift-process is worth 1 matrix point.
12. Watched All The Movies On The List
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Prove that you have watched all the movies of The List (plus some from the Possibilitators Training Film). The proof can be:
Send the proof when login the Matrix Point PRACTETB.12 at https://login.startover.xyz/. This shift-process is worth 1 matrix point.
15. Gotten Out of Your Parent's Bubble
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There are many hints that would prove that you are still in your parent's bubble: you still have clothes in your parent's house, you still wear the same clothes that they bought for you, you go to the same church, you buy the same brand of jam or yogurt as you parent's bought, you set the table or eat at the same time as you did in your parent's house, you celebrate the same holidays as they did in the same way, you surround yourself with the same kind of people as your parent's friends, you are doing the job that your parents wanted you to do, you still accept money from your parents (or from the government, after all your parents pay taxes - you only receive their money indirectly), or you still know that worse come to worse they will be the ones to save you from financial or social crisis, ...
If any of this is still happening in your life, you have not exited your parent's bubble.
Prove that you got out of your parent's bubble. The proof can be a link to:
Send the proof when login the Matrix Point PRACTETB.15 at https://login.startover.xyz/. This shift-process is worth 1 matrix point.
16. Decontaminate Your Adult Ego State From Your Gremlin And Child Ego State
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Prove that you have decontaminated your adult ego state from your Gremlin Ego State and your Child Ego State to a large degree. The proof can be a link to:
Send the proof when login the Matrix Point PRACTETB.16 at https://login.startover.xyz/. This shift-process is worth 1 matrix point.
18. Read And Practice The Entire Distinctionary
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Prove that you have read and studied the entire distinctionary as food for your 5 bodies (and not as a task to complete). The proof can be a link to:
Send the proof when login the Matrix Point PRACTETB.18 at https://login.startover.xyz/. This shift-process is worth 1 matrix point.
19. Make Your Website (And Update It Regularly)
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Prove that you have made your own website, which includes a live link to:
The proof is a link to your website.
Send the proof when login the Matrix Point PRACTETB.19 at https://login.startover.xyz/. This shift-process is worth 1 matrix point.
20. Do At Least 50 Emotional Healing Processes For Yourself
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Prove that you have asked and done for yourself at least 50 emotional healing processes. The proof can be a link to:
Send the proof when login the Matrix Point PRACTETB.20 at https://login.startover.xyz/. This shift-process is worth 1 matrix point.
21. Participate in 5 Expand The Box Trainings
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Prove that you have participated in 5 Expand The Box Trainings with a variety of Trainers. The proof is:
Send the proof when login the Matrix Point PRACTETB.21 at https://login.startover.xyz/. This shift-process is worth 1 matrix point.
22. Live In A Clear Distinction Between Your Box and Your Being
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23. Shoot All The Voices - Live In A Voice-Free World
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Prove that you have shot all the Voices with your Voice Blaster and keep shooting all the Voices. The proof can be a link to:
Send the proof when login the Matrix Point PRACTETB.23 at https://login.startover.xyz/. This shift-process is worth 1 matrix point.
Matrix Code PRACTETB.24
Escaping Patriarchy is willingly giving up on the rewards that the capitalist patriarchal empire provides you in exchange for your life: certainty of knowning, being right, being first, having a big house, a new car, a new phone, certificates to put on your walls, trophies, the husband who makes money, the wife who cares for the children, putting children in school, weight loss programs, a trustworthy head of state, ...
Prove that you have escaped Patriarchy. The proof can be a link to:
Send the proof when login the Matrix Point PRACTETB.24 at https://login.startover.xyz/. This shift-process is worth 1 matrix point.
25. Go Through At Least 2 Family Constellations
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When born in your family, you were passed down the secrets, the burden, the intrigues, the ties that you parents, gran-parents, gran-gran-parents and so on have tide in their life times. These knots and ties from the past are blocks to your own lightness and freedom of movement. Family constellations is a necessary initiation on your Trainer Path.
Prove that you have been through at least 2 Family Constellations, one on each side of your family (mother & father).
The proof is the dates of your family constellations and the name(s) of the facilitator(s).
Send the proof when login the Matrix Point PRACTETB.25 at https://login.startover.xyz/. This shift-process is worth 1 matrix point.
26. Grow Up: Complete All Steps Of The Mom and Dad Process
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Prove that you have completed all your steps of the Mom and Dad Process. You have exited your mom's belly. You have taken your authority from your father. You have exited your parent's bubble. You have taken back your center from what you mother and your father wanted you to be. You are no longer hookable by your father or your mother. You have non-conflictual relationship with your father and your mother. You have put both your mother and your father behind you, as ancestors, in your energetic field. You have found one thing you admire about your father and your mother, and that is the story you carry about them.
The proof can be:
Send the proof when login the Matrix Point PRACTETB.26 at https://login.startover.xyz/. This shift-process is worth 1 matrix point.
Matrix Code PRACTETB.27
Do whatever Emotional Healing Processes are necessary to do accomplish these lifestyle changes. If nicotine or alcohol or Tetra Hydra Cannabinol (THC - the addictive element in marijuana) have your Attention, then the Clients and the Training Spaces do not.
To precisely inform your Gremlin: beer and wine are alcohol. 'Alcohol-free' beer still contains 1% alcohol.
If your unTransformed Gremlin or unDecontaminated Adult Ego State have your Attention, then your Transformational Spaces do not.
If your brain is on psychopharmaceuticals, then who owns your brain? Who are you really?
(NOTE: Devin Gleeson is offering shift spaces and shift support for the brain-drug transition. For information, please check HERE and contact Devin through his website.)
The drugged condition is out of Integrity with Navigating the Healing and Initiatory spaces of Expand The Box Training.
Drinking alcohol and smoking anything are major Gremlin foods. They are far too costly energy-wise for a Possibility Management Trainer.
Sorry. There is no way around this requirement. Hello.
After one year of total abstinence, please register Matrix Code PRACTETB.27 in your free account at StartOver.xyz. In the PROOF field, please write the name of your biggest supporter during this time. This Experiment is worth 27 Matrix Points.
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3 Phase Healing
50 unpaid.
100 paid.
Prove that you have held space for 150 Emotional Healing Process. The proof can be:
Send the proof when login the Matrix Point PRACTETB.28 at https://login.startover.xyz/. This shift-process is worth 1 matrix point.
29. Developed The Ability To Create Linear and Nonlinear Possibility
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Prove that you have develop the ability to create linear and nonlinear Possibility. The proof can be:
Send the proof when login the Matrix Point PRACTETB.29 at https://login.startover.xyz/. This shift-process is worth 1 matrix point.
30. Exited The Linear Life Plan
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Exited University as a stalling process.
Exited your job as an employee as a safety mechanism.
Escape your 10 years plan.
Close the back doors into the corporate world that you have left opened if 'Possibility Management does not work out'
Prove that you have exited the Linear Life Plan. The proof can be:
Send the proof when login the Matrix Point PRACTETB.28 at https://login.startover.xyz/. This shift-process is worth 1 matrix point.
32. Become The Space For Your Trainer Bright Principles To Do Their Work In The World
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Distilled your Bright Principles
Chosen your Bright Principles and your Destiny
You need to have some form of the following 3 “Trainer Principles” in your distilled Destiny. All three of these Trainer Bright Principles are equally important, and yet… having a razor-sharp lightening-speed flame-spitting sword of clarity seems to make a serious amount of difference…
If any of these 3 are not in your repertoire already then you will need to connect with them and develop them somehow, which requires conscious efforts and feedback and coaching from other Trainers.
42. The Ability To Navigate Transformational Space
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60. Faced Reality
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You have read slowly and thoroughly each of the website listed below and done (or are currently doing) at least 3 experiments from each website.
Psychopath: https://psychopaths.mystrikingly.com/
Patriarchy: https://patriarchy.mystrikingly.com/
What Now?: https://whatnow.mystrikingly.com/
Slay The Jabberwork: https://slaythejabberwock.mystrikingly.com/
Lead By Youth: https://ledbyyouth.mystrikingly.com/
Every Generation: https://everygeneration.mystrikingly.com/
66. Become Time
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Shift to Making Time and moving faster than the speed of time rather than chasing after time and trying to find time
72. Read These 20 Books On The List
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Including:
82. Become 'Bad'
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Conscious use of Gremlin. Conscious Asshole.
You can interrupt.
You can face into unconscious purposes.
You refuse to be hooked into confusion or misunderstand by other people's Gremlin.
You refuse to be Gremlin food for others.
You refuse to give up your context.
You say your lines in the script.
Matrix Code PRACTETB.98
This includes redesigning your Box, retraining your Gremlin, moving your Point Of Origin, Shifting Your Identity, integrating your Parts, doing whatever it takes so that the following elements of Baggage are no longer a part of your daily life:
99. Source A Context That Is More Responsible and Aware Than Your Birth Culture and Religion
Matrix Code PRACTETB.99
You carry your own culture with you everywhere you go.
Prove that you have gotten bigger than your birth culture and religion. This means that when comments are made about the boxes of your birth culture or birth religion, these comments do not apply to you. You recognize your cultural box and expand it to include your own culture.
The proof can be:
Send the proof when login the Matrix Point PRACTETB.99 at https://login.startover.xyz/. This shift-process is worth 1 matrix point.
Your Practice Expand The Box Resources
Who is on your Team for you to prepare yourself to deliver your Practice Expand The Box?
It is most effective to receive feedback and coaching from as many sources as possible: people with more Matrix than yourself, people with less Matrix than yourself, your Possibility Team, your fellow Possibilitators in the Possibilitator Training, your 3Cells, your participants in your WorkTalks, Workshops, Rage Club, Fear Club, your fellow Trainer Pathers, Possibility Lab Trainers, Trainer-Trainers, and so on!
Possibilitator Training
If your Archetypal Lineage combined with your Possibilitator Training Specialty indicate that your are a Possibility Trainer, then Possibilitator Training is your Phase 1 of Trainer Path.
Here you connect-in with the Possibility Management gameworld and Practices, and you join the global Tribe of co-creators. Here is where you help each other gain Matrix, courage and Integrity to go through your 10 Doorways.
Your 'Practice ETB' 3Cell
Create for yourself a 3Cell with two other Trainer Pathers in one direction and two other Trainer Pathers in the other direction. You get to thrive at the intersection.
Set your Conscious Purpose to prepare yourself to deliver your Practice Expand The Box Training.
The ongoing question you continuously ask each other is: "Which of the 99 Shift process are you practicing right now?"
Make Pirate Agreements to commit to each other's Commitment so that you take yourself into Breakdowns and Breakthroughs.
Your Trainer Path
Everyone in Trainer Path wants you to make it, each step of the way, no matter which step you are preparing to take. Trainer Path is an 'Infinite Game' - not played for winners and losers, but played so that the game keeps being played. It is probable that you never experienced so much positive good-hearted support before - especially not at school, probably not even in your family. How can you integrate Trainer Path 'Team Spirit' into an ordinary life? You cannot. You may need to start completely over with your life-strategies. Trainer Path is this big, wide, deep, and demanding of culture-shift. Keep doing your Emotional Healing Processes (EHP) along the way. These are so important for removing blocks, changing old unconscious decisions, and getting you back in touch with who you really are and what you really feel.
Delivering a practice Expand The Box expands your Box.