The core purpose of the Possibility Management Trainer Path is to deliver Phase 2 of Possibilitator Training to those Possibilitators whose Possibilitator Specialty is to become Expand The Box Trainers. Phase 2 is the 'Specialty Skills Development' part of Possibilitator Training, after you have already gone through the 10 Doorways.
At some point during Possibilitator Training, if it becomes crystal clear in your 5 Bodies that your Archetypal Lineage is simultaneously challenged and fed by ongoingly delivering Expand The Box Trainings and Being A Trainer, then possibly Trainer Path is for you...
The procedure to become an Expand The Box Trainer in the context of Possibility Management is clear, simple and not easy. The gateway to being an Expand The Box Trainer is delivering a successful Practice Expand The Box Training.
'Successful' means that at the end of your Practice Expand The Box Training, the Trainer-Trainer who is in the room with you gives you a 'Go' to deliver Expand The Box Trainings in the context of Possibility Management, and the other members of the TTTS agree.
'Practice' means that you receive ongoing feedback and coaching for 3 days and nights on what works in your spaceholding and space navigating, what does not work, and what you can do to create, hold, and navigate a truly transformationalExpand The Box Training better for your participants, for yourself, and for the Possibility Management gameworld.
'Expand The Box' means that you deliver the 40 to 50 core thoughtmaps and all the processes necessary for a Training space to be called an Expand The Box Training. The Expand The Box Training is the gateway to Possibility Labs. It is necessary for participants to have built a solid foundation in distinctions and liquid states to be able to fully engage and integrate the results of the authentic adulthood and archetypal initiatory processes delivered in Possibility Labs.
You will come to realize that delivering a successful Practice Expand The Box is NOT about being able to 'draw maps on a flip chart board', or give instructions to your participants as they 'sit in groups of three through processes'. These, of course, are necessary skills to deliver your Practice Expand The Box, but they are insufficient. Your Trainer Trainer at your Practice Expand The Box will be evaluating the quality of other important skills.
Consider that between the moment you enter the Trainer Path (and therefore declare yourself on the evolutionary journey to deliver Expand The Box Trainings) and the moment you are ready enough to be asked to deliver your Practice Expand The Box, the time that goes by will probably, at the least, be TWO YEARS.
When you declare that you are preparing yourself to deliver a Practice Expand The Box, you change your relationship to the Universe, and the Universe changes its relationship to you. You declare to the Universe that you already stand in radical responsibility for many things that you were taking nearly no responsibility about before in your life. Here are a few warnings to consider for your journey along this path.
Warning #1: The following is a warning which comes from having seen what happens to powerful people who declare their wish to deliver an Expand The Box. Soon after your declaration, it is possible that you experience a rapid crash and burn. This experience of self-sabotage is your Box and Gremlin doing their jobs: insuring that you survive. Taking radical responsibility is not on their list of survival strategies. Your Box and Gremlin will then do anything in their power to compromise your ability to hold space, or be a force of Transformation, Evolution and Love.
If when you read the paragraphs above, you - your Box - starts thinking: 'I will never make it', 'This is not for me', 'I never wanted to be an Expand The Box Trainer anyway', 'I give up now', please write down these sentences exactly, and take them to your Trainer Path, your 3Cell, or members of your Possibility Team to go through these Emotional Healing Processes. It is appropriate that your Box freaks out. Your Box cannot deliver an Expand The Box. But you can.
SPECIAL NOTE: If when you read the paragraphs above, you - your Gremlin - says: 'I don't want to wait two years!', 'I am already ready!', 'Two years is too long!', 'I don't want to wait around for somebody else to tell me I am ready!', then quite probably, your Gremlin Ego State is contaminating your Adult Ego State. Please start immediately your Decontamination process in the company of a Decontamination Coach (someone who has successfully gone through the Decontamination Process themselves) and your Decontamination Team, and do not stop working fiercely at your own Decontamination until your Adult Ego State is fully decontaminated. This usually takes at least one-and-a-half-years of steady work with strong ongoing support. WE ARE NOT JOKING ABOUT THIS. A person with a contaminated adult ego state has no access to presence, no access to archetypal spaces, no access to authentic intimacy, and no access to serving as a Possibility Management Trainer. As long as your Adult Ego State is contaminated to any measurable degree by your Gremlin (or Child or Parent) Ego State, you do not have the Presence, Vulnerability and Clarity necessary to hold Expand The Box Trainings.
Warning #3: If you embark on this magnificent evolutionary journey of Trainer Path, I am sad to say that it does not guarantee that you will ever have the chance to deliver a Practice Expand The Box or Expand The Box Trainings. Not everybody who takes on this journey makes it. Being an Expand The Box Trainer is not for everyone. There is no guarantee.
That being said, it would not be so much of a journey if you had any guarantee, no? There are very few places where you can still embark on an authentic initiatory journey. Most diplomas and certificates today can be bought or obtained with minimum of real effort. The journey to deliver your Practice Expand The Box and thereafter Expand The Box Trainings is an authentic initiatory journey. It has a clear beginning - entering the Trainer Path, and has no end.
Please embark on this Evolutionary journey only if your 5-body-system is in alignment with the intention of delivering Expand The Box Trainings after your successful Practice Expand The Box. If you are trying to accomplish this as some trophy to put on your wall, for status, for a cool thing to list in your CV, for prestige or fame... your lack of authenticity deceives both you and our gameworld. This is not fun for us. We will be watching out for this.
E.C.C.O. (Earth Coincidence Control Office) has its own plan for each of us. It is possible that, after delivering a few Expand The Box trainings, E.C.C.O. could takes you on a completely divergent path. That is E.C.C.O.'s business. We are not asking for a life commitment to Expand The Box or Possibility Management. However, we are asking for honesty about what is your purpose for preparing yourself to deliver a Practice Expand The Box.
Caring For You And The Gameworld Of Possibility Management
It would be irresponsible on our part (in this case the term 'our' refers to the TTTS Trainer-Trainers, spaceholders and guardians of the Possibility Management Trainer Guild) - to not give you thorough warnings about becoming an Expand The Box Trainer. We do not take the miracle of becoming an Expand The Box Trainer lightly, and we check to see that you do not either.
Our guardianship (guardianship as in the Maori term 'Kaitiaki') is a demonstration of our care for you as a human being in service of Gaia, and a care for the global gameworld of Possibility Management.
Standing at the edge, being completely vulnerable while at the same time holding your flaming Sword Of Clarity at the throat of Gremlins trying to eat you alive to maintain their status quo as you land new distinctions, memes, tools, and experiences in the space and in their 5 bodies that will over-and-over pull the rug out from under their feet... is an experience that will burn-to-ashes any remaining attachments you have to your own Box identification and survival strategies. Using your so-well-rehearsed survival strategies in an Expand The Box space risks losing the entire space to the unconscious and desperate purposes of your participants' Boxes and Gremlins.
We care that you can hold such a degree of liquidness. The risk being that your Box and Gremlin freak out so much that they take back control of your life and, for example, make you hate Possibility Management, or hate the other Trainer-Trainers, or hate your feedback and coaching Teams. The risk is that your evolutionary overwhelm makes you slam the door on your service to Gaia. We DO NOT want that to happen. We want you to succeed, however long it might take for you to be properly ready. There is no maximum time frame for your preparation.
We also care for the quality of the gameworld of Possibility Management. Over and over again participants in Expand The Box Trainings and Possibility Labs have experienced the extreme safety and simultaneous incorruptibility of Possibility Management spaces. This is a legend that has grown for decades about Possibility Management. It is also the purpose of Possibility Management to provide such spaces in a landscape where it is (too) easy to fall into the grips of abusive or irresponsible new age tantric guru shaman free-love kabalistic block-chain drumming plant-medicine improvisational contact dance sect spaces. You are required to develop an intense clarity about all this.
Delivering an Expand The Box requires a mature level of Presence, Being, Connection, Love for other Beings and Gaia, as well as a Flaming Sword of Clarity, an Incorruptible Bullshit Detector, and access to Nonlinear Possibility.
We care that you uphold this level of integrity, and that you are proud to deliver your services within the consciously evolving Gaian Gameworld of Possibility Management. We care that this level of impeccability and accountability is carried long into the generations of Expand The Box Trainers to come.
Practice Expand The Box: Rules of Engagement
The Practice Expand The Box is:
a 3-day Expand The Box training
delivered by yourself (not in pairs)
to a maximum (and minimum) of 6 participants, including 2 Expand The Box repeaters
for no tuition fee for the participants (they pay for their own food and overnight)
in the presence of a Trainer-Trainer giving you ongoing real-time Beep! Shift! Go! Feedback and Coaching
for a payment of 1000 Euros fee (+tax +expenses) to the Trainer-Trainer
at the end of which you will receive a 'Beep-Shift-Go' or a 'Go' from the TTTS (Trainer Trainer Training School)
3-Day Expand The Box
A 3-day Expand The Box starts at 9AM on the first day (often a Friday) and ends at 6PM on the third day (often a Sunday). The first and second day contains 5 sessions of around 1h50min each. The first two days end around 10PM. The third day contains 4 sessions of about 1h50min each.
During an Expand The Box Training, you deliver a minimum of:
the following 40 Expand The Box thoughtmaps:
Map of New Results
Map of Maps (Map of Thoughtware)
Old/New Map of Decisions, or Old/New Map of Having This or That
Old/ New Map of Responsibility
Map of Responsibility and Culture
Map of Box Technology (with Gremlin)
Map of Liquid State
Map of 5 Bodies
Red Pill/Blue Pill
Map of Rapid Learning
Map of Feedback & Coaching
Map of 3 Games
Map of Centering
Map of Low Drama
Map of 4 Kinds of Listening
Map of Linear/ Nonlinear
Map of 6 Kinds of Speaking
Map of Numbness Bar
Old Map of Feelings
New Map of Feelings
Map of Mixed Emotions
Map of Ego States
Map of Communication
Map of Problem Ownership
Map of Learning Spiral
Map of Stories
Map of Is-Glue
Map of Is-Glue Dissolver
Map of 3 Powers
Map of Box is Optional
Map of Black Hole
Map of Defensive / Expansive Learning
Map of Stellating
Map of 3 Worlds
Map of Bridges To Archearchy
Map of Possibility
Map of 13 Tools
Map of 7 Core Skills
Rapid Learning Process
Centering Processes (at least 3 different ones)
Low Drama Process
Neurotic/Possibility Listening Process
Nonlinear Possibility Story Process
Possibility Speaking Process
12 Roadblocks and Completion Loop Process
Low Level Feelings
Victim/Responsible Story Process
Declaring (3 powers) Process
Gremlin Hunting & Initiation
Black Hole Initiation
Box and Being Process (with at least 5 rounds)
All the processes listed above must be delivered for the space to be considered an Expand The Box Training. The minimum of what is delivered does not depend on what the participants can hold. Each participant holds what they can hold. It is your job to have this conversation with your participants who are not ready to go into a Possibility Lab.
Delivered By Yourself
A Practice Expand The Box is delivered alone - as the main Trainer.
We discovered that when delivering a Practice Expand The Box in pairs, you actually miss out on the necessary experience of 'knowing' that you can deliver by yourself any of the 35 Expand The Box Maps and hold space for any of the Expand The Box processes. If there is another Trainer delivering their Practice Expand The Box with you, you will always wonder if you can really do it alone. You might use other Trainer as crutches, asking them to deliver Maps and Processes that you don't know or think your don't know.
When you start delivering your full Expand The Box Trainings, it is recommended then to partner with another Trainer. We especially recommend to create partnership between a Woman Expand The Box Trainer and a Man Expand The Box Trainer. You can then practice Creative Collaboration between an Archetypally Initiated Woman and an Archetypally Initiated Man and demonstrate Next Culture to your participants.
To 6 Participants
The Practice Expand The Box is delivered to 6 participants maximum (and minimum), including 2 Expand The Box repeaters (see below 'No Financial Cost For The Participants' for clarification about the repeaters).
The maximum limit of 6 participants is a protection for you to not 'burn' through your circle of potential Expand The Box participants by give them a free-to-participate pass. It might be tempting to offer a large number of people the possibility to access such amazing possibilities for no monetary cost. Such orientation will come to bit you in the ass.
Expand The Boxis amazing. Your participants need to sacrifice something in order to create space in themselves to receive the value of Expand The Box. Money is the best sacrifice that we have found for people who were born and raised in modern culture.
Secondly, what in you is avoiding taking a stand for the amazingness of your service and getting the value for it? Giving your services away for free is a disrespect for the journey that you have taken to be where you are. If asking for the true value of your service is where you blocked, please ask for as many Emotional Healing Processes as needed for you to take a stand for the stand that you take.
6 participants is also a minimum number of participants for your Practice Expand The Box. For a transformational space to be efficient, it needs a certain amount of energy. 6 people brings the energy necessary for the space to be alive and for you to experience working with different kind of Boxes and Gremlins.
Last but not least, if you struggle to gather 6 people from your circle to access - for free! - the transformational power of Expand The Box, how do you think you will be able to create an Expand The Box where your participants will pay full price? If you are stuck at gathering 6 participants from your circle to support you during your Practice Expand The Box, please do the Emotional Healing Processes necessary AND start over in regards to building Your Circle.
For No Financial Cost For The Participants
The 6 participants of your Practice Expand The Box do not pay any tuition to participate. However, they do cover their food and lodging expenses themselves.
The value exchanged with you during your Practice Expand The Box is their Feedback and Coaching. This means that at the end each session, you keep 10-15min for your Team of participants to give you Feedback and Coaching on what worked, what didn't work and what you could try to create better result in your transformational spaceholding. Ask them to coach everything:
Your facial expressions.
The way you move through space.
Your tone, intensity, insinuation, and other qualities of voice.
Your space holding and nonlinear space navigating.
Your humor (or lack of it… or your Gremlin’s use of it…)
Your intentions and purposes.
Your vocabulary and speaking skills.
Your writing and drawing skills.
Being able to write and hold space and speak at the same time.
Your ability to deliver clear instructions for the exercises.
Your clarity of spaceholding, i.e. making it safe to be vulnerable and take risks.
Your ways of dealing with the other Gremlins in the room.
The way you handle logistics. The way you manage the logistical details to enhance the drala (the magical energy) of the space.
The way you are not controlling the space, not being the Alpha-Male in the space, creating space for others to show up in extraordinary ways.
The way you flow energy, getting the non-talkers to talk, keep the over-talkers from taking over the space, etc.
Even if you don't understand what they say, and especially if you do not agree with what they say, write down what they say (not what you think they are saying) in your Beep! Book so it is available for you to review at a later date when you are not so identified with your Box and your Gremlin.
This is the importance of having 2 repeaters as participants. As they already have had the experience of an Expand The Box Training, they have the ability to have more perspective on your spaceholding and hence more precise and accurate feedback.
Your 6 participants do not receive an official Expand The Box graduation certificate from participating in your Practice Expand The Box. They will NOT, therefore, be qualified to go to Possibility Labs. Those participants, who participated in your Practice Expand The Box, have the possibility to participate in an official Expand The Box (your own, or an Expand The Box delivered by other Possibility Management Trainers) for half of the regular price (as is customary in the PM Gameworld for anyone doing their second Expand The Box, with further reductions for additional ETBs... as specified in the Trainer Guild Codex) and then receive certification to attend Possibility Labs. It is your job to clearly explain these conditions to each of the participants of your Practice Expand The Box so that there are minimum confusions down the line.
If you decide to rent a Training space for your Practice Expand The Box, you will need to pay for that yourself. However, we recommend you to keep the expenses low. The Practice Expand The Box is easily done in someone's private house. We also recommend that you cook for yourselves, as to keep the food expenses to a minimum too.
In The Presence Of A Paid Trainer-Trainer
A Practice Expand The Box is only a Practice Expand The Box if there is a one of the listed Trainer-Trainers in your Practice Expand The Box space from the first day to the last day. It is recommended that you organize with the Trainer-Trainer for them to be present the day before the Practice Expand The Box starts and to stay half-a-day after the Practice Expand The Box ended (for a 'morning after' check-in).
The Trainer-Trainer is notone of the participants. They sit outside the circle in a way to not disturb the space.
The job of the Trainer-Trainer is:
to witness your shift of identity into someone who can deliver Expand The Box.
to give you Feedback and Coaching during the breaks about what worked, what didn't work, what you saw, what you missed, who you are, who you could be, and experiments to try during the next steps.
to provide your with a clear 'Go' or 'Beep' at the end of the Practice Expand The Box (see 'Beep-Shift-Go' or 'Go' Section for clarity about this).
The Trainer-Trainer does NOT necessarily provide feedback and coaching during the session, unless the space is held in a way that is not transformational or even detrimental to the participants. Then the Trainer-Trainer intervenes, and offers the possibility of a do-over or whatever they sense is necessary. The Trainer-Trainer is the janitor of the Practice Expand The Box. They are your safety net if something 'goes wrong'. For clarity, an intervention on their part does not mean that you cannot receive a 'Go' at the end of your Practice Expand The Box.
The exchange of value with the Trainer-Trainer who will sit at your Practice Expand The Box is a fee payment of 1000 Euros fee (+tax (if applicable) +expenses).
'Beep-Shift-Go' or a 'Go'
If you receive a 'Go' from the Trainer-Trainer, this means you have successfully delivered your Practice Expand The Box: you are ready enough to be an Expand The Box Trainer, you can deliver fully paid Expand The Box Training that are recognized as entry way for the Possibility Labs, you are welcomed into the Possibility Management Trainer Guild and you can have a Trainer profile on the https://possibilitymanagement.org (for extra cost).
If you receive a 'Beep-Shift-Go', this means you receive specific feedback about which shift-identity processes you still need to go through and which skills are still missing for you to become someone who can deliver Expand The Box Trainings. You also receive coaching about how to train the skills and go through the shift processes. You cannot deliver fully paid Expand The Box Trainings that are doorways to Possibility Labs. You do not enter the Possibility Management Trainer Guild.
The Possibility Management Trainer Guild continues to support you on your Evolutionary journey. Nobody can go through the shift-processes for you. And nobody can stop you from going through this shift-processes. It might be useful for you to know that one Expand The Box Trainers did 3 Practice Expand The Box Trainings before getting a full 'Go' and now is a successful Expand The Box Trainer. Their commitment to their own evolution is changing people's lives.
Beep-Shift-Go! Get back on the horse!
A Practice Practice Expand The Box
Over the last years, a new practice has emerged: the 'Practice Practice Expand The Box'. The Practice Practice Expand The Box is a preparatory step for your Practice Expand The Box. The Practice Practice Expand The Box has very similar conditions to the Practice Expand The Box with two main differences:
Your feedback Team does not need to be made a Trainer-Trainer on the list below. Your feedback Team does not necessarily get any exchange money for their time. However, donations are allowed.
The participants of a Practice Practice Expand The Box DO NOT get access to Possibility Lab and they CANNOT go to an Expand The Box Training for half-price.
Your first step on your path to deliver your Practice Expand The Box is to enter the Possibilitator Training: a global Team of Edgeworking genius-types on the Path of becoming fully effective Possibilitators.
Together Possibilitators heal and transform their inner structures to consciously collaborate with Gaia.
The Possibilitator Training open doors to many specialties, one of them is the Possibility Management Trainer Path for which the core purpose is to train Expand The Box Trainers, Possibility Lab Trainers, ETB-Trainer Trainers, PLab Trainer Trainers, and Trainer-Trainer Trainers, etc...
When it is clear that one of your services for Gaia is to deliver Expand The Box Training, then you prepare yourself to enter the Trainer Path.
To enter the Possibilitator Training, please reach out to Vera Franco - guardian and spaceholder of the Possibilitator Training.
To enter the Trainer Path, please reach out to Anne-Chloé Destremau - spaceholder and guardian of the Trainer Path gameworld.
Go Through The 99 Shift Processes
Upon entering the Trainer Path, start enthusiastically and thoroughly going through the 99 shift processes listed below in the 'Who?' section.
These 99 shift processes are necessary initiations to become someone who can deliver Expand the Box Trainings.
These 99 shift process are as much stepping stones on your journey as deeply nourishing food for your 5-body and Trainer Being.
If you are not deeply fed by these transformational processes, it is possible that you are still in the School Prison (one of the 8 Prisons) trying to complete the assignments to make the 'teacher' happy. You are still in survival. Get yourself out of school and start over with your 99 shift processes, this time letting yourself be fed by the transformational processes.
It is also possible that along this path you discover that your Archetypal Lineage service is not to deliver Expand The Box Training. Your Archetypal Lineage and Being are fed by something else than the Trainer Path. Realizing what you don't want is getting a step closer to what you really want. If getting closer to what you want (and are) is the results of being on the Trainer Path, this is a complete success! It is possible that you would leave the Trainer Path, maybe join again the Possibilitator Training and find your true specialty. Shift-Go! Yes!
When it becomes obvious to you, to your Trainer Path Regional, to your 3Cell and/or to a Trainer-Trainer that you are ready to deliver Expand The Box Trainings, please reach out to Anne-Chloé Destremau - the spaceholder of the Possibility Management Trainer Path - to set up a call.
This call is designed to be an interview testing where you are on your path of identity shift. It could be that you would have this call with different Trainer-Trainers from the TTTS separately as each Trainer-Trainer has a uniquely calibrated Bullshit Detector, Archetypal Lineage and Gremlin scanning your Matrix and Being.
After being interviewed by more than one Trainer-Trainer and receiving a 'Go' to deliver your Practice Expand The Box by one or more of them, it is time to start organizing the date, time, participants and the logistics for your Practice Expand The Box.
You will be given an "Expand The Box Starter Kit" that contains the check list of materials that you will need for your Practice Expand The Box, logistics letter templates, Expand The Box Handbook in PDF, and a template for an 3-Day Expand The Box Design.
It is also time to negotiate with the TTTS which Trainer-Trainer will sit at your Practice Expand The Box to give you Feedback & Coaching and eventually a 'Beep' or a 'Go'. Deciding which Trainer-Trainer will sit at your Practice Expand The Box is not only your choice. We use the group intelligence of the TTTS and of yourself to made that decision.
You can find the list of Trainer-Trainer who sit at Practice Expand The Box Trainings in the section 'Teams'.
Who Must You Be To Deliver Expand The Box Trainings?
The purpose of you delivering a Practice Expand The Box is for your participants, the Trainer-Trainer, and you, to experience a shift in your identity. The question is: Who do you need to be to deliver a successful Practice Expand The Box and thereafter Expand The Box Trainings?
The following 99 shift-in-identity processes are the ideal qualifications for a person to successfully deliver the 3-5 day high-intensity adulthood-initiation experience named Expand The Box. Of course, nobody matches the ideal because… we are human beings.
However, with over 40 years of experience learning the hard way what to avoid and what to assure while developing Expand The Box, wouldn’t it be wise to try to do whatever you can to help stack the cards in your favor?
Each of these 99 shift-in-identity processes build the exact Matrix needed to become someone who can deliver Expand The Box Trainings.
To deliver Expand The Box Trainings, you are someone who has...
1. Become Centered, Become Grounded, and Become Bubbled
Matrix Code PRACTETB.01
Prove that you have become someone who is Centered, who is Grounded and who is Bubbled. This is the beginning of first position of a Possibility Manager, in addition to have your Gremlin on a short leash and your Sword of Clarity out.
The proof can be:
a video of you walking in a mall with your center, grounding cord and bubble where we can see the mall walker walking around your bubble and you keep your center and connection with Gaia
an article about the process of learning how to keep your center
a video of you explaining with example the distinction of being center and the consequences
Send the proof when login the Matrix Point PRACTETB.01 at https://login.startover.xyz/. This shift-process is worth 1 matrix point.
In addition to completing the 3-3-3 by yourself and for yourself, you have held space for a Team of edgeworkers to complete the 3/3/3 Anger initiation. As the spaceholder, one of you job is to also provide feedback and coaching when needed to your Team members so they can experience the shift possible during the 3/3/3 Anger.
The purpose of the 3/3/3 Initiation is to upgrade your nervous system to it can experience conscious Anger between 0-100% at any moment for no reason. During the 3/3/3, your and your Teammates' Anger will mature from a childish, parental or Gremlin Anger towards Adult anger. Provide the necessary feedback, and ask for feedback and coaching for this shift to actually happens.
Prove that you have completed the 3-3-3 Anger Initiation. The proof can be:
a collage of 36 photos for every time you have completed 3 minutes Anger 3 times a week for 3 months
a video montage of your 3-3-3 initiation
an article in the format of journal entry of each time you have completed 3 minutes Anger 3 times a week for 3 months
Send the proof when login the Matrix Point PRACTETB.02 at https://login.startover.xyz/. This shift-process is worth 1 matrix point.
In addition to completing the 3-3-3 Fear by yourself and for yourself, you have held space for a Team of edgeworkers to complete the 3/3/3 Fear initiation. As the spaceholder, one of you job is to also provide feedback and coaching when needed to your Team members so they can experience the shift possible during the 3/3/3 Fear.
The purpose of the 3/3/3 Initiation is to upgrade your nervous system to it can experience conscious Fear between 0-100% at any moment for no reason. During the 3/3/3, you and your Teammates will probably start being afraid of your fear. The maturation of the Fear is to welcome Fear as Fear, and to recognize the immense energy and information that your fear has for you. Coach others, and ask for coaching for yourself to experience such shift.
Prove that you have completed the 3-3-3 Fear Initiation. The proof can be:
a collage of 36 photos for every time you have completed 3 minutes Fear 3 times a week for 3 months
a video montage of your 3-3-3 initiation
an article in the format of journal entry of each time you have completed 3 minutes Fear 3 times a week for 3 months
Send the proof when login the Matrix Point PRACTETB.03 at https://login.startover.xyz/. This shift-process is worth 1 matrix point.
In Verbal Reality, your experience of the world, of others and of yourself is limited to the words that you know. In Verbal Reality, you must name an experience, package it in something that your mind can understand to survive. Life in Verbal Reality is linear, lifeless and in only one body.
Expand The Box is a 5-body, multi-dimensional Experiential space. Delivering Expand The Box from Verbal Reality is a betrayal of the work other's have done before you in the context of Possibility Management and it is a betrayal of the Possibility that could be created for your participants.
Prove that you have shifted from Verbal Reality to Experiential Reality. The proof can be:
a video of yourself being in Verbal Reality & then shifting to Experiential Reality
an article about your life in Experiential Reality
a video where you guide others into the Experiential Reality
Send the proof when login the Matrix Point PRACTETB.04 at https://login.startover.xyz/. This shift-process is worth 1 matrix point.
In school, you learn defensive learning. You are groomed to only learn things that already fit into your present understanding. This is the case of all your participants too - unless than have been unschooled (and even then). Expand The Box almost only provides knowledge (and experience) continent that do not match any of the pre-existing knowledge (or experience) of your participants.
In addition, your participants might bring knowledge continents that you do not know about and do not fit into the Expand The Box knowledge continents. If you have not shifted to Expansive Learning you will filter out, fight against and push out these knowledge continents from your participants.
Prove that you have shifted to Expansive Learning:
Write an article about how you are holding, right now, within yourself, two knowledge continents that you are not connected to each other and even maybe contradict each other; and your experience of this
Make a video demonstrating Expansive Learning
Make a piece of art that demonstrate Expansive Learning
Send the proof when login the Matrix Point PRACTETB.05 at https://login.startover.xyz/. This shift-process is worth 1 matrix point.
6. Ongoingly Documentated Your Discoveries And Feedback In Your Beep! Book
On your path, you will travel though 5-body liquid states. You will make discoveries almost every day. You will travel through the level of one distinctions many times. You might have already figure out that on this path of evolution, you often do not remember who you were 3 months ago.
If you do not write along the way your discoveries, your liquid states, your new decisions, your new identities, the new territories that you've been through, they are lost. When each of the steps that you've taken could be (is certainly) useful for somebody else who will walk to path behind you.
On the Trainer Path, it is one of your jobs to leave signs, and stakes in the territories that you have visited for other walkers to find them later (or even for you to look back on the journey that you have taken). It is also how you build your circles. Your circle is made of many people who are walking in the territories that you have walked so you can offer guidance.
The discoveries, especially the Feedback and Coaching, that you receive are articles to be written, videos to be made, processes to be written up.
Prove that you are ongoingly documenting your discoveries and feedback in your Beep! Book. The proof can be:
a photo of your past 5 Beep! Books, including some photos from some of your notes inside
an article about one of the feedback / discovery that you have made and wrote into one of your Beep! Books
a poem from your experience of reading through your old Beep! Books and discoveries
a book emerging from the feedback and discoveries of your Beep! Books
Send the proof when login the Matrix Point PRACTETB.06 at https://login.startover.xyz/. This shift-process is worth 1 matrix point.
7. Held a Possibility Team For (At Least) One Year
Your Possibility Team is the central seed of Your Circle. As you water your Circle seed and give it sun and nutrients, Your Circle grows.
Your Possibility Team is the ideal safe and dangerous space for you to practice holding space ongoingly. Experiment with how to create a space that is attractive through offering real value, real connection, real Team Work.
Your Possibility Team is your home.
Prove that you have held a Possibility Team for at least one year. The proof can be:
a link to a calendar where you advertise your Possibility Team
a testimony from a long term participant of your Possibility Team
the link to your Possibility Team website and the experiments you have done
Send the proof when login the Matrix Point PRACTETB.07 at https://login.startover.xyz/. This shift-process is worth 1 matrix point.
There are many hints that would prove that you are still in your parent's bubble: you still have clothes in your parent's house, you still wear the same clothes that they bought for you, you go to the same church, you buy the same brand of jam or yogurt as you parent's bought, you set the table or eat at the same time as you did in your parent's house, you celebrate the same holidays as they did in the same way, you surround yourself with the same kind of people as your parent's friends, you are doing the job that your parents wanted you to do, you still accept money from your parents (or from the government, after all your parents pay taxes - you only receive their money indirectly), or you still know that worse come to worse they will be the ones to save you from financial or social crisis, ...
If any of this is still happening in your life, you have not exited your parent's bubble.
Prove that you got out of your parent's bubble. The proof can be a link to:
a letter from your parents asserting that you are not doing any of the things listed above
Send the proof when login the Matrix Point PRACTETB.15 at https://login.startover.xyz/. This shift-process is worth 1 matrix point.
Escaping Patriarchy is willingly giving up on the rewards that the capitalist patriarchal empire provides you in exchange for your life: certainty of knowning, being right, being first, having a big house, a new car, a new phone, certificates to put on your walls, trophies, the husband who makes money, the wife who cares for the children, putting children in school, weight loss programs, a trustworthy head of state, ...
Prove that you have escaped Patriarchy. The proof can be a link to:
Send the proof when login the Matrix Point PRACTETB.24 at https://login.startover.xyz/. This shift-process is worth 1 matrix point.
When born in your family, you were passed down the secrets, the burden, the intrigues, the ties that you parents, gran-parents, gran-gran-parents and so on have tide in their life times. These knots and ties from the past are blocks to your own lightness and freedom of movement. Family constellations is a necessary initiation on your Trainer Path.
Prove that you have been through at least 2 Family Constellations, one on each side of your family (mother & father).
The proof is the dates of your family constellations and the name(s) of the facilitator(s).
Send the proof when login the Matrix Point PRACTETB.25 at https://login.startover.xyz/. This shift-process is worth 1 matrix point.
26. Grown Up: Completed All Steps Of The Mom and Dad Process
Prove that you have completed all your steps of the Mom and Dad Process. You have exited your mom's belly. You have taken your authority from your father. You have exited your parent's bubble. You have taken back your center from what you mother and your father wanted you to be. You are no longer hookable by your father or your mother. You have non-conflictual relationship with your father and your mother. You have put both your mother and your father behind you, as ancestors, in your energetic field. You have found one thing you admire about your father and your mother, and that is the story you carry about them.
The proof can be:
Send the proof when login the Matrix Point PRACTETB.26 at https://login.startover.xyz/. This shift-process is worth 1 matrix point.
27. Gotten Bigger Than Your Birth Culture and Religion
You carry your own culture with you everywhere you go.
Prove that you have gotten bigger than your birth culture and religion. This means that when comments are made about the boxes of your birth culture or birth religion, these comments do not apply to you. You recognize your cultural box and expand it to include your own culture.
The proof can be:
Send the proof when login the Matrix Point PRACTETB.27 at https://login.startover.xyz/. This shift-process is worth 1 matrix point.
32. Become The Space For Your Trainer Bright Principles To Do Their Work In The World
Distilled your Bright Principles Chosen your Bright Principles and your Destiny
You need to have some form of the following 3 “Trainer Principles” in your distilled Destiny. All three of these Trainer Bright Principles are equally important, and yet… having a razor-sharp lightening-speed flame-spitting sword of clarity seems to make a serious amount of difference…
Sword = for example, Clarity
Heart = for example, Love
Soul = for example, Possibility / Initiation / Transformation / Evolution.
If any of these 3 are not in your repertoire already then you will need to connect with them and develop them somehow, which requires conscious efforts and feedback and coaching from other Trainers.
33. Sent Out A Monthly Newsletter To Your Circle For At Least One Year
And ongoingly collect new email address for your newsletter.
34. Written And Published 15 Articles
On Medium, Oped News, Examples:
35. Your Hidden Purpose On The Tip Of Your Tongue
Traveled down into your Underworld during the 'Hidden Purpose' process held in a 4 or 5-day Possibility Lab, and recovered your Hidden Purpose or sometimes call your Shadow Purpose.
36. Exited Low Drama And Put Your Gremlin On A Conscious Feeding Schedule
37. Built A Collaborative Relationship With Your Initiated Gremlin
Give your Gremlin the jobs that your Box cannot do.
38. Relocated Your Point Of Origin To The Context Of Radical Responsibility
39. The Practice To Build Your Altar Wherever You Go
40. Held 50 Work-Talks (min. 2h)
Or recorded space. Interviews.
Presentation at Conference, Festivals Using and Presenting the tools and distinctions of Possibility Management
41. Shifted to Phase 2 of Feelings Work
42. The Ability To Navigate Transformational Space
62. Built And Activated A Shock-Proof Bullshit Detector
63. Taken Responsibility For Your Complete Zoo Of Parts
64. Participated In 10 Possibility Labs
Or being well on your way to have participated in 10 Possibility Labs. This goes without saying, you are someone who has committed to participate in at least 10 Possibility Labs.
65. Become Someone Who Cannot Give Away Your Authority
66. Become Time
Shift to Making Time and moving faster than the speed of time rather than chasing after time and trying to find time
67. Activated Your Real Voice
68. Participated In Any Available Trainer-Training Spaces
Trainer Path Lab
Trainer Skill Lab
Trainer Path Gathering
Trainer Research Days
Rage Club Spaceholder Training
'Mage' Training Space The Art Of Spaceholding
69. Dropped Enough Psycho-Emotional Baggage To Be Useful To E.C.C.O.
Completing Incomplete Emotions
70. Attracted At Least 600 People Into Your Circle And Has The Practice Of Continuously Building Your Circle
71. Taken A Stand For Being A Bridge Builder To Archearchy
And therefore, take a stand for Archearchy
72. Read These 20 Books On The List
Radiant Joy Brilliant Love (now re-printed under the title: Building Love That Lasts)
Conscious Feelings by Clinton Callahan.
Creating by Robert Fritz
Choice Theory by William Glasser
Impro by Keith Johnstone
Self-Observation by Red Hawk
Tribes by Seth Godin
Mount Analogue by René Daumal
Original Wisdom by Robert Wolff
Secrets of the Talking Jaguar and Long Life Honey in the Heart by Martín Prechtel
Daemon and Freedom by Daniel Suarez
Of Water and the Spirit by Malidoma Patrice Somé
Finite and Infinite Games by James P. Carse
Dune by Frank Herbert
Parent Effectiveness Training by Thomas Gordon
Radical Parenting by Brad Blanton
The Kin of Ata Are Waiting for You by Dorothy Bryant
Ender’s Game by Orson Scott Card
Winning Through Enlightenment by Ron Smothermon
and you should be at least part way through reading In Search of the Miraculous by P. D. Ouspensky
To borrow some of these books, ask in the Trainer Path Library on Slack.
73. Empowered The Practice Of Using All 13 Tools On Your Energetic Toolbelt (Plus Others)
First and foremost, your Possibility Stone.
Your watch Your sword of clarity Your disk of nothing
Is-glue and is-glue dissolver.
74. Gained 15 TechnoPenuriaPhobia Healing Skills
75. Empowered The Practice Of Negotiating Extraordinary Realationships
Not Gremlin food.
Centered. Present. Adult. Creative Relationship.
76. The Ability To Sponteanously Create Experiments For Your Clients' Next Step
77. Earned 3000 Matrix Points on the StartOver.xyz Game
78. Built A Gaian Gameworld
Trash collecting event.
79. Been Through 10 Other Non-Possibility Management Initiations
80. Practiced Efficiently Writing With The Trainer Alphabet On A Flip Chart Board While Landing Distinctions In The Space
81. Is Implementing Three Edgeworking Practices At All Times
Not letting Fear move you backwards
Writtin a book
Creating non linear possibility in your relationship
82. Become 'Bad'
Conscious use of Gremlin. Conscious Asshole. You can interrupt. You can face into unconscious purposes. You refuse to be hooked into confusion or misunderstand by other people's Gremlin. You refuse to be Gremlin food for others. You refuse to give up your context. You say your lines in the script.
83. The Practice Of Making Pirate Agreements With Other ETB Trainers in Training To Keep Your Commitments
Become a Pirate
84. Gone Through A Significance Number Of The 51 Initiations
85. Explored The Trainer Guild Website And Committed To The Trainer Guild Codex
As you will enter the Trainer Guild upon becoming an ETB Trainer
86. Explored In Your 3Cell The PM Thoughtmaps
87. Made Friends With The PM Processes Website As A Resource
Break in Certainty
88. Explored The Possibility Management Museum
89. Practiced Delivering Each Of The 50 Possible ETB Thoughtmaps
90. Explored The 'How To Create An Expand The Box' Training Website
91. Explored The 'Possibility Managers' Website And Got Your Personal And Project Websites Listed There
Know and meet your colleagues around the world.
92. Explored The 'How To Create A Trainer Path Regional' Website
93. Practiced Implementing And Already Make Money Delivering Torus Meeting Technologies
94. Been Wearing A Talisman As A Signal That You Are Preparing To Jack-In To Your Archetypal Lineage
95. Opened And Made At Least One 25$ Microloan Through The Archearchy Kiva Team
96. Read The 'Gaias' Website And Paid Someone In Gaias
97. Stopped Drinking Alcohol And Stopped Smoking (Anything)
Do whatever Emotional Healing Processes are necessary to do this. If nicotine or alcohol or Tetra Hydra Cannabinol (THC - an addictive element in marijuana) have your attention, then the Clients and the Training Space do not.
Such a condition is far to expensive to allow in the healing and transformational training spaces of Expand The Box.
Drinking alcohol (beer and wine are alcohol...) and smoking anything are major Gremlin foods. They are very expensive and heavy energy-wise, far too expensive for a Possibility Management Trainer. Sorry. There is no way around this requirement.
98. Exited Projections
Especially on your Trainer-Trainer
99. Exited Beliefs, Assumptions, Expectations And Resentments As Gremlin Food
Who is on your Team for you to prepare yourself to deliver your Practice Expand The Box?
On your Trainer Path, it is necessary to receive feedback and coaching from as many sources as possible: people with more Matrix than yourself, people with less Matrix than yourself, your Possibility Team, your fellow Possibilitators in the Possibilitator Training, your 3Cells, your participants in your work-talk, workshops, and Clubs, your fellow Trainer Pathers, Possibility Lab Trainers, Trainer-Trainers, etc...
Find below the list of Trainer-Trainers from the TTTS who can sit at your Practice Expand The Box.
Possibilitator Training is your Phase 1 of Trainer Path. Here you connect in with the PM gameworld and the global tribe of co-creators. Help each other to build courage and integrity to go through your 10 Doorways.
Create for yourself a 3Cell with two other Trainer Pathers in one direction and two other Trainer Pathers in the other direction and you being alive at the intersection.
Make the conscious purpose to prepare yourself to deliver your Practice Expand The Box.
The ongoing question that you will ask each other is: "Which of the 99 shift process are you working on right now?" Make Pirate Agreements to commit to each other's commitment and take yourself into breakdowns and breakthroughs.
Your Trainer Path Regional
Trainer Path Spaceholder,
Possibility Management Trainer
(ETB & Lab), member of the TTTS
Possibility Management Trainer
(ETB & Lab), member of the TTTS
PM New Zealand Spaceholder, Possibility Management Trainer